Women sitting, supporting each other in a cozy setting

Gather. Grow. Rise.

Blue Moon Collective is a community for people who crave spaces that feed courage, connection, and growth.

Founded by facilitator Natasha Gray, it’s a place to step into your own leadership while being held by a circle of equals.

Since 2022 we’ve gathered in over 300 circles, poured endless cups of tea, and shared moments of laughter, tears, and breakthrough insights that reshape how we move through the world, all in service of living resourced, authentic, vibrant lives.

Women’s Circles on Vancouver Island

Each week, small groups gather in circle to practice being seen, heard, and known. In our laughter, in our tears, in the full expression of our humanity.

Together, we build the courage to live with more truth, more connection, and more care—for ourselves, for each other, and for the world we’re part of.

If something in you is longing for that kind of space, you’re welcome here.

What participants are saying:

  • "The insights, truths, calling-forwards and love that is stirred up every time we meet is nothing short of magical."

    A.H.

  • "Circle has a feeling of deep trust that acknowledges we are holding each other as we evolve into new versions of ourselves."

    M.M.

  • "It's supported me to connect with parts of myself that I'd stopped listening to."

    K.J.

Facilitation Training

If you’ve ever felt the quiet pull to lead your own women’s circle, this is your invitation to begin.

Whether you’ve shared stories in a Blue Moon circle before or are meeting us for the first time, our Women’s Circle Leadership & Facilitation Training invites you to step to the centre.

Across six weekly gatherings in Victoria, BC, you’ll blend time-tested circle practice with clear, usable tools for shaping conversation, tending emotion, and guiding collective insight.

Our first cohort gathers July 2025, and applications are open now.

Retreats & Deep Dives

Sometimes the surest way to reconnect is to step off the grid for a spell. Our weekend retreats will unfold on a rustic yet cozy property near Parksville, nestled among towering trees and the salty air of Vancouver Island’s east coast.

Expect rest, reflection, and community as we tend to the parts of ourselves that get buried under everyday routines. Come to pause, go inward, and leave feeling more intact.

Dates for the next retreat will be announced soon. Add your name to the mailing list and we’ll keep you posted.

Who We Are

Blue Moon Collective is guided by founder Natasha Gray and a circle of facilitators forged through our training program—people skilled in holding brave, transformative space. Peek behind the scenes and meet the ones pouring tea, asking the big questions, and keeping the communal fire alight.

  • True self-care is not salt baths and chocolate cake; it is making the choice to build a life you don’t need to regularly escape from.

    Brianna Wiest

  • Courage starts with showing up and letting ourselves be seen.

    Brené Brown

  • Anything or anyone who denies your impulse to grow must either be revolutionised or relinquished.

    Toko-Pa Turner

  • What's missing in our world isn't just justice—it's the recognition that healing is a collective process, not an individual one.

    Gabor Maté